Tuesday, December 21, 2010

homecoming.

we are home. as a family of three! wheeee! :)

thank you so much for your prayers and positive thoughts over the last few days. we could REALLY feel them! leaving seoul was a bit rough as we were delayed for 4 hours due to heavy fog. they didn't announce our rescheduled flight time until we began boarding, so it was hard trying to keep a toddler entertained at the airport without knowing when we would actually leave. but, we did lots of laps and checked out every little detail of the area near our gate.

oh, and choi boy proudly wore one of his many wisconsin shirts for the ride home to the good ol' US of A. :
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once we (finally) got on the plane, choi boy was a champ. i mean, things could not have gone any better. he was happy to play in the area in front of our seats (thank goodness for bulkhead seating!) and even charmed his way into getting some snacks from the surrounding passengers and flight attendants. we walked up and down the aisles a few times, but for the most part, choi boy was happy to sit and play and eat lots and lots of snacks. which would explain the nasty poopy diaper we encountered about halfway through the flight!

he had some snuggle time with mini piper:
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and even managed to squeeze into the bassinet for some sleep:
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the hubs wasn't doing as well and is still battling this yucky stomach virus. the poor guy was running a fever and battling some nastiness throughout the flight, but was a major trooper and helped out a lot with choi boy. he is such a good daddy and i love him so much more now that i'm seeing him in this role. :)

we finally landed and were greeted by the most amazing welcome crew. :) i'll have to post video another time, but let's just say i was a mess when i saw all the people that had come out to greet us and our little boy. you know how they say it takes a village to raise a child? well, friends, our proverbial village (present virtual company included) totally rocks. ;)

choi boy was curious about all the people that were excited to see him:
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and he was especially intrigued by the balloons!
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after all the hoopla, we got some shots with our friends and family (though not with everyone, unfortunately):
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with our friend, kaitlin.

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our buddies, sandra and ben. clearly, the boys are thrilled to be meeting each other. :)

by the time we actually landed, it was about 3:30 am, seoul time, so we were anxious to get back home and get some rest. choi boy did well for his first time in a car seat and fell asleep within a few minutes.

when we finally got home, we were surprised to see this:
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my sister, cousin, and a family friend had come to decorate our house! so sweet. and we were shocked to find gifts, too! (more on those to come in a later post!) i told you, my village rocks. ;)

after unloading the car, we tried to settle in as best as we could. our first day at home was a quiet one filled with lots of firsts and adjusting, but it was so sweet.

it is surreal to see this:
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can you believe it? it's choi boy actually *in* his room!!! i'm still pinching myself!

we are loving experiencing the little everyday stuff with our son...

like eating together
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and even brushing our teeth
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please pardon the greasy mess that is my hair. a shower is not a top priority for me right now. ;)

choi boy is just amazing and we are so grateful to call him our son.

thank you again for all your prayers and love and care and support. our hearts sing with joy in knowing that you are all celebrating and rejoicing with us. thanks, village peeps! :)

47 comments:

  1. ahh! finally! i've been checking and praying and wondering and praying :-) so glad to see you all are home safely!

    i'll keep praying! :-)

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  2. oh my goodness, look at the way he is looking at you in that last picture! staring you down, mama!!! beautiful! i can't get over just how CUTE he is, either--a stunning, gorgeous boy to be sure!!!!

    if you're wanting a shower, take him in with you! just be careful, wet babies are slippery!!!

    i hope you are all getting some rest, especially poor peter. no fun to be that sick on a long flight!!

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  3. You guys are a poster family for the saying that adoption is a miracle- what a beautiful miracle it is in deed. Congratulations!!

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  4. i'm so happy you managed to do a post and keep us updated! ( i took like a 6 month blogging break when noah came home and so wish i didn't. ) anyway...so glad the flight went well! ( but sorry to hear about the delay and peter still being sick. ) how wonderful that you were greeted by family and friends and that you came home to decorations and gifts too.
    i seriously got goosebumps again though just looking at the photos of carson "at home!" and your mention and photos of some of your firsts. brings back so many memories of those first few days with noah. it is surreal, isn't it?!!!!!! enjoy every moment and try to rest when you can.
    and can i just say again how thrilled i am for you?!!!!!!

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  5. isn't it the most amazing thing to be HOME with you SON? i remember that surreal feeling too - but also one of peace and right-ness. hope that peter feels better soon, love the badger shirt (our kids didn't even get that!), and that you are all home, safe and sound. enjoy it! and thanks for posting - it's great to see CB at home!

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  6. I'm overjoyed seeing pics of my nephew in his actual room!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get better Pete and we love you guys so much -- Esther, Jake, Mols

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  7. hooray!!!! it's so wonderful to see your son in his room! i can't believe he slept in the bassinet on the way home! i'm super impressed.

    i hope peter is feeling better soon. seriously, that's a hard flight without a new child AND being sick - he's a trooper for sure!

    take care and i can't wait to see and keep reading more!

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  8. Yay for an update!! I've been so curious to hear how it's all going! I'm so happy to hear that your flight was so good!! I'm so so sorry Peter did not feel well! That is just the pits!! ugh. That is so awesome and so sweet of your family and friends to be at the airport and to decorate your house!! I absolutely love seeing pictures of Carson here in the US!!! They are Your pictures! It's crazy...gives me goosebumps!! I can see why you'd be pinching yourself! He is such a cutie...I want to kiss those cheeks! Has Carson met his big sis yet?

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  9. sooo happy for you :)
    tearing up in the library ... finally!

    he's so cute.

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  10. So happy to hear from you guys! Sounds like things went as well as they could on the way home. But poor Peter :(
    I gotta say, Grace, you look like a total natural at this - such a beautiful, glowing mama!
    I remember when we were blessed with Olive, I fell even more in love with Adam, and in so many different ways, after seeing him in action as a father. It's amazing how much parenthood changes you, your partner, and the entire relationship!
    It's totally fun to see Choi boy enjoying the beautiful home you've created for him! Hope you guys get some sleep :)

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  11. my husband and i have been checking on your blog to read your updates! wish i could visit haha. he is a gem. glad you are home safe.

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  12. so glad to hear the plane ride went so well. i had no idea you could have a bassinet on an airplane. very cool! what a nice surprise to come home and find decorations and presents. so sweet!

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  13. so happy to see that you have made it home safely! Your Peter is such a champ. I hope he feels better soon!

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  14. so much to say!
    i'll limit it to this:
    LOVE the choi boy in his badger gear! u-rah-rah wisconsin!

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  15. Welcome home!! I'm so glad that Carson was a champ on the flight! See--no worrying necessary, right? :) It is so wonderful to see Carson in his room, playing with his toys, and eating in his high chair. What an amazing Christmas blessing!

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  16. Welcome home! Big smiles seeing Choi Boy in his home. Such a long time coming. Great to hear that he was so good on the plane.

    Can't imagine making that flight while being ill and having a new son in tow, so Peter must be a real ironman.

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  17. Congrats on your new family of FOUR (piper counts, right?)! =P

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  18. welcome home! these 1st days home are so precious and i'm glad you are enjoying them. it looks like choi boy is doing really well - what a blessing!

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  19. this has been so awesome to follow along on your trip. AND wow Choi boy is in your/his house, it is surreal!

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  20. AHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I JUST DIED. AGAIN. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH ALREADY!!!!!!!! oh boy...auntie is going to be a constant mess.

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  21. What a thrill to see Choi Boy ... ahem... CARSON in his own room, playing with his own toys, wearing his own clothes, clutching mini-Piper, sitting in his own high chair...

    I have got to say that following your journey has definitely been a blessing for me. I hadn't been able to really put my finger on it until recently. I think it's been one of the most humbling things I've experienced as a new mother. I take SO much for granted and I definitely do not stop and cherish the moments of my own child's life. I think I can count the number of times I've actually thanked God for RJ on my hands. So thank you so much for sharing your journey with everyone... and I can't wait to continue seeing all of your updates!!!

    And by the way. What a HANDSOME guy!!!! I also can't wait to hear about Piper's reaction to him (and vice versa)!!! :)

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  22. EEEE~~~these pics make it seem like CB has been with you forever already. Can't wait to meet the little guy! BIG HUGS to you all!

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  23. LOVE LOVE LOVE this. so glad the flight went well for Carson. the bassinet thing is so cute! hopefully Peter will now feel better. God is so gracious! Love the pic of you brushing his teeth. keep them coming!

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  24. WOW.. I remember those feelings. I am so happy for you. You look like a natural. Sorry Peter is still under the weather. Praying he is well soon and protection to you and Choi boy from it. Glad you are home safe. ENJOY.

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  25. Yahoo! So thrilled for you guys! So many emotions, so many firsts, so much to look forward to!

    I am glad to hear that the flight went so well! Gotta' love those bassinets (although ours was used solely for storage...unfortunatley ;0)

    Choi boy is adorable and I love the Wisco gear! Go Badgers!

    Enjoy being home as a family of three!

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  26. Wow! Welcome home Carson! Hope Peter is feeling better soon (and definitely that you and Choi Boy stay healthy)!

    These pictures are amazing. I am just busting with happiness that he is home!!! Continued prayers.

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  27. I love seeing him in your house!! That's always my favorite part. I'm thrilled things went well on the plane. Sounds like you're off to a good start, Mom!
    Hope Peter is on the mend soon...

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  28. YAY!!! Congratulations on the safe journey home!!! He looks like he fits in your arms perfectly. I hope that Peter starts to feel better soon!!!I remember what a surreal experience it was to have H playing with something that we had stared at for months!

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  29. Welcome home, wow, that is amazing he did so wonderful on the flight. I am so happy you have your son! He is precious!!!

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  30. Yeah! Welcome home! I love seeing him in his room and him cuddling mini piper! Have a wonderful awesome Christmas as a family of 3!!1

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  31. It sounds like things are going much better than expected!!! (well, based on my experience!) Hope you get to catch some sleep and your husband is feeling better! I love seeing him home with you and the airport sight is the best EVER. So emotional!!!! BTW...I gave in and invested in dry shampoo...a mom's best friend!

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  32. Omigosh I can't keep the tears from flowing when I see pics of him. The one where he's brushing his tears just kills me. I'm so happy for you and Peter. Carson looks like such a sweet boy. It's going to be the best Christmas ever! a virtual *hug* from New Jersey. ~ Lina

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  33. HE'S SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE!!!!!!!!!! Awwww!! What a Xmas miracle Grace!!!! :) :)

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  34. Yay!!! You're home! What a wonderful home coming. I was so glad to see your update! I hope hubs feels better soon! Take care and enjoy each first and all of the memories! Hugs!

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  35. It was wonderful to be able to be at the airport to welcome all of you home. Your family and friends are amazing people (I know you knew that).
    It seemed as if Carson had been with you forever. He looked so comfortable in his Ergo and seemed so calm.
    I am so happy that the flight went well and things at home seem to be going great. I hope his transition (and yours!) continues to go well.

    Welcome home, Chois!

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  36. It's so great to see him in your arms and your home. It sounds like the plane ride home was great (besides the delay) I'm so happy for your family. Have a great Christmas and welcome home!

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  37. oh Grace, i am so happy for you guys!!! What a truly beautiful son...you know, he looks like a cross between you and Peter, a true match made in heaven...can't wait to read more! CONGRATULATIONS!!! -Eroia

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  38. OK...I totally LOVE this post. I LOVE seeing Carson in your arms...in your home. I LOVE all the family photos. (I can see why you were bawling at the airport...such hoopla!) I totally know what you mean about loving your husband even more...and finding it totally surreal to see your own child in your own home. I was in awe for a long time...and still am sometimes. Congrats & welcome home. YOU DID IT!!!!

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  39. YAY!!! Congratulations!! He is just a DOLL, and I am so excited for you and your family!!! (By the way, I added you to my blogroll... hope that's okay!)

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  40. So exciting! I'm praying for you and DH and Choi Boy as you all transition and adjust.

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  41. Welcome Home!!
    Your flight sounds great (minus the stomach bug and the nasty diaper)! The family picture is absolutely perfect!! Yeah!

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  42. Welcome home! I've been thinking of you guys all week. Wishing you the merriest Christmas ever!

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  43. He is scrumptious! I love the two finger suck. Amazing!!

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  44. So glad to hear everything went well on the flight and you are all home safely! What a sweet boy you have!!!

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  45. YIPPPPPEEEEE!!!! (Yes, I'm really really behind - I blame the illnesses ripping through our house) I loved reading every single piece of this post. HE'S HOME!!!!

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  46. Finally catching up now that I'm home from the holidays and back on the internets ... Welcome Home! Reading this post made me SO HAPPY. He's finally HOME. I remember it was the ordinary stuff (eating, brushing teeth, playing in his room, like you mention) that were the best part of Max being home. I'm so glad the flight went OK (well aside from the long delay - ugh! and Peter being sick - not fair!). I hope your hubby is feeling better so he can truly enjoy being a daddy!

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